“The sexist cousin, the homophobic grandfather, the aunt who refers to Brazil nuts as ‘n-word toes’ and then laughs about it. Then there’s the dad who tosses around ‘that’s so gay’ like he’s a dumb high school kid in 2005 and the grandmother who blames immigrants for, well, pretty much everything.”
Vice‘s excellent post on stories of people confronting their bigoted relatives…
Read, cringe, and learn by example:
https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/paz3nm/all-the-horrible-racist-sexist-shit-your-relatives-say-at-holiday-dinners